Thursday, February 7, 2013

January with Everyone

Aside from our regular activities--FAME, music makers, house cleaning, grocery shopping, church activities, life in general, etc., we had a few fun and exciting things this month.  We had our 20 week ultrasound.  Although the experience itself was underwhelming, we were excited to find out we are having another girl!  We had a "baby party" to tell the kids.  
I made a cake with a pink center and that was how they found out. 

 Sylvie was very excited because she was right in her prediction.
 Jens was a little disappointed, as he had guessed a boy, but the reality is, after Sylvie was born four years ago he told me we would have another sister.  So he was right, too.  Plus, eating cake makes everyone happy.

We have spent every Saturday at the middle school watching Jens play basketball.  Sylvie usually brings a variety of animals and coloring activities to make it through the 45 minute game.


 Sylvie giving loves to the new baby.
 Joy School was at our house last week.  It is always fun to have the kids come, and it is always a relief when my week is over!  We learned about decisions and laws.
 After the cold snap finally broke, we have enjoyed several glorious 60 degree days at the park.  Jens has been enjoying golfing and playing catch with Mike, while Sylvie has enjoyed collecting sticks, riding her bike, and playing hide and go seek.


We are looking forward to company and adventures in February!

January with Jens

Jens has started out the new year with school, basketball, and piano lessons.  Basketball is definitely more fun this year, as he is learning the rules and how to better play the game.  He works hard to get open during the games and has even taken some shots this year--something he never attempted last year.  His team is really nice and only has 8 players, so he gets lots of playing time.  He and I try to practice once a week at the gym, where he enjoys shooting and passing with me.  It is fun to see his confidence grow.  


 His main complaint with basketball is that it makes him sweaty.  I think that is the thing I like about it the most.  He is still riding his bike to and from school each day, which gives him additional exercise--something he seems to really enjoy and need.  He can even ride to piano lessons after school (with some other kids of course).
 We started piano lessons at the beginning of January.  Although I had the best of intentions to do it myself, we just weren't making the time.  He enjoys the lessons and he and I practice together five days a week, which is mostly enjoyable and only occasionally irritating.  I think he has always enjoyed learning new skills, and piano is just the same.  I hope he will some day play as well as Uncle Loren or Grandma!

He has been doing a job chart that is supposed to help him manage his time and stay on task.  Some days it works like a dream, some days not so much.  But he is good at doing a lot of his jobs.  Some of his chores include:  packing his lunch, emptying the trash, bringing in the empty garbage cans from the curb, folding and putting away his laundry, cleaning his room, cleaning and organizing his dresser, picking up the family room, setting the table, and cleaning the hall bathroom.  He also likes helping Sylvie get her exercise time in by jumping on the trampoline with her.

Academically Jens is doing really well.  I just hung up two 100% timed math tests and a 100% spelling test on the fridge.  He is accumulating quite a collection!  He feels good about academic accomplishments and is enjoying some new challenges in math--multiplying, dividing, and fractions.  I sure don't remember doing that in second grade, but he is, and he likes it.  He is a reading machine, especially enjoying Box Car Children and Encyclopedia Brown right now.  He and I are almost finished with Dangerous Island, which has totally captured him.  It certainly brings back memories for me!  He occasionally gets in trouble for turning his light back on and staying up too late reading.
Some of his other favorites right now include Legos.  In fact, Legos are probably his number one distraction.  He can't go to get something from his room without being sidetracked and playing Legos until he is reminded to stay on task.  The Wii is still a favorite--it is working really well to have one hour on Wednesdays and two hours on Saturday.  He has to finish his jobs before he can play, and it is a great motivator.  He also looks forward to play dates with friends.  He and Colby spent an hour outside a few weeks ago raking pine needles and having a wonderful time.  Best play date ever!!

He continues to impress (disgust?) us with his sweet tooth.  He polished off a box of Candy Cane Jo Jos by himself.  The whole box.  I found it under his bed, and when I asked him about it he nonchalantly admitted to eating the whole thing in two days.  Ack!  He comes by it honestly, I guess, since I have a raging sweet tooth, too.

Jens is excited about the new baby.  He often remembers her in his prayers, blessing her to get enough sleep, to grow and be healthy.  He has read the children's book about what to expect when mommy is expecting multiple times and is quite the expert!  He and Sylvie are becoming better playmates, which is a relief to me.  Everything eventually ends in tears and a fight, but sometimes it takes an hour to hit that point, which is a pretty great improvement.

January with Sylvie

Sylvie has been busy this month with Joy School, Music Makers, play dates, and her favorite--balluhnay.  All of last year she talked about how when she was four, she would go to balluhnay, so now that she is four, I enrolled her in the Rec class to try it out.  It was love from the moment she tried on her leotard, tights, and shoes.  
She was very concerned, however, that she doesn't actually know any balluhnay, and was tearfully worried that she wouldn't know what to do.  We spent several days before her first class talking about how the teacher would be there to help her, and all of the girls would be learning together.  She was pretty sure that I was going to attend class with her, holding her hand throughout.  Luckily, by the time the first day came, she was mostly excited and only a little bit nervous.  Jens and I went along and watched.  She felt very pleased with her fancy hair. 
Class was very cute.  She did pretty well keeping up.  The class in general is a year older than she is--I would guess that half of the girls are in kindergarten and the other half will be in kindergarten next year, so as Sylvie has a year of preschool to go, she is a year behind.  She is as coordinated, though, and because she is the youngest, she is a very good listener.  This was one of their dancing activities.  They were pretending to be asleep, then they would wake up and do different movements.  I loved how earnestly she was "sleeping!"
After her first class she came home and wanted to show Mike a play by play reenactment.  I had to encourage her to just cover the highlights.     
They are doing a little bit of barre work, which is probably the hardest part for Sylvie.  I think she likes the tap part the best--wearing clicky shoes is always fun.  
In other Sylvie news, she continues to excel at dressing up.  You never know what kind of outfit she will concoct next. She keeps us smiling with her creative imagination.  Lately she has taken to pretending Mike is her grandfather when he gets home from clerking duties on Sunday.  This requires him to talk in an accent and call her granddaughter.   She also likes to pretend they are pirates, and then Mike has to say "Arrrg" a lot.  She is wearing about 4 winter hats in this picture:

Her favorite describing word is "bumpily," as in "My bed is too bumpily." 

She has a "new" bigger bike, which makes her much faster on wheels.  She loves it, and loves going fast.  We try to encourage exercise each day for her, so she and I have been around the block a lot of times!  Other favorite activities include playing with Play Doh, jumping on the trampoline, reading books, and playing with her stuffed animals, whom she affectionately calls her children.  She particularly likes to dress them in her clothing and do their hair.  Big Kitty continues to be a favorite and is often used to toboggan down the stairs.  She has recently discovered the cd player in the playroom and has taken to playing either the Joy School cds or the Star Wars soundtrack constantly.  She loves music.  She also enjoys borrowing my phone and taking pictures.  Lots and lots of terrible pictures! She enjoys picking out her own outfits, which is sometimes very interesting.  She is starting to try to do her own hair, as well.  She came in yesterday with three clips haphazardly clipped in, telling Mike and me that she had "angel hair."  She apparently thought the results were very beautiful.  She loves to snuggle and give hugs and kisses, especially to the new baby (my stomach).  She also talks a lot.  A LOT!

Academically she seems to be taking off without much encouragement from us.  A few days ago she came running to me saying "Mom, does this spell please?" She had written "PLES," which I thought was pretty good.  She also made a Valentine for "CaC."  I don't know how she can even remember Casey.  She loves to color and write.  She managed to successfully give a talk in primary a few weeks ago--something we were afraid would never happen.  She talked about Joseph Smith and the first vision.  She did a great job of talking into the microphone; I think it helped that I got her a huge picture to hide behind from the library.  She has learned the first article of faith and will recite it loud and proud for anyone who asks.  

We have been doing job charts with the kids since the beginning of January, and she usually does a really good job of finishing her things.  Some of her jobs are: cleaning her room,  picking up the toy room, dusting, setting the table, making her bed, putting away her folded laundry, taking her sheets off her bed, and helping empty the dishwasher.  She is a good little helper.  

Sylvie has a strange and intermittent fear of death that pops up when you least expect it.  Suddenly she will be crying and saying "I don't want to die!"  Reasons she fears death:  she will be lonely, she will miss her toys.  These are also the reasons she doesn't want to get married or leave home.  Ever.  I do have to make one exception to the death thing, however, because after Christmas, when she didn't get a "real live dog," she wanted to die so she could go to heaven and pet Casey and make sure someone was taking her for walks. 

We have been trying to talk to her about trimming her hair.  The first time it came up, Mike made the mistake of saying "haircut."  She promptly started crying, saying "Then I will look like a boy!"  

We had bacon with pancakes a few nights ago.  When I set the plate on the table she gasped in excitement and shouted "Ahh!  I love that stuff!"  

Sometimes when we are in the car and it is dark, or when she is in her bed, she will tell us all to be quiet because she is watching a movie behind her eyes.  Then she squinches her eyes shut and visualizes whatever movie she is in the mood for (usually Cinderella as there is no really scary bad guy).  If you ask her what part she is watching, she will tell you.